Love Your Favorite Sister!
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Love Your Favorite Sister!
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Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Knit Two...
I read most of the weekend. I went to the book store on Saturday afternoon. This book is the second in a series...I don't know how many more the author is planning to write but I hope there are more to come. Kate Jacobs is on her way to being at the top of my list of favorite authors. Of course she will be sharing that place with Nicholas Sparks.
Anyway back to the book. The first book was The Friday Night Knitting Club. The books are about a group of women that become friends because of their love of knitting and the time they spend together knitting on Friday nights obviously. When I read The Friday Night Knitting Club and this weekend when I read Knit Two I had the urge to learn to knit. I still might.
Kate Jacobs also has one more book that I haven't read. That books is called Comfort Food. If anyone has read Comfort Food let me know. That will probably be the next book I read when I have a weekend that I can spend reading.
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Monday, March 2, 2009
Pictures Of The Snow...
It snowed sometime between 11pm and 12am on Saturday night. I stayed up late on Saturday night reading. I think it snowed again very early morning on Sunday. Some places in Tennessee got 10 inches of snow....just about 100 miles west of Franklin.
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Saturday, February 28, 2009
A Rainy Saturday...
It is a rainy day here in Franklin. It's suppose to rain ALL DAY. It is a perfect day to lay on the couch, read a book or watch a movie!
There is a chance of snow this afternoon! I'm so ready for spring...hopefullyit is on the way!
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Friday, February 27, 2009
HOW ARKANSAS ARE YOU?!?!?!
1. Mined for diamonds or crystals?
34. Seen Chief Big Track ride his horse down the sidelines or around the field after a touchdown?
35. Been to the Bono Bridge and waited for a train?
For each question you answer with a "yes" you get 2 points.
It's funny! All the ones I answered "yes" to made me laugh or I thought about a really cool (well cool to me) story. SOOOO how Arkansas are you?
Have a great weekend!
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Thursday, February 26, 2009
Water...
Well this week I am making an effort to increase my water intake...I usually have something to drink sitting at my desk...most of the time is it water...however I seldom drink the "recommended daily amount" - eight - 8 oz glasses of fluids. This week I'm making sure before I leave to go home each day I have had that much water.
Don't get me wrong I'm like Cliff Huxtable (The Cosby Show)..."I want something with bubbles"...but I'm making sure that I get PLENTY of water this week. I think I feel better drinking that much water but I'll keep you posted.
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Today's Devotional - Proverbs 31...
An Emotional Affair
26 Feb 2009
Lysa TerKeurst
A few years ago, I watched a friend get tangled up in an emotional affair. She was a strong Christian woman who loved her family but the attraction to this other man seemed unavoidable. She tried to talk herself out of it but her heart played tricks on her mind, and the justifications for letting things continue down this path soon led her to a very dangerous place. She was becoming emotionally attached to this other man.
In a moment of desperation and fear, she confided in me what was going on. As she described how she got pulled into this place, I found myself being challenged by the realization of how subtly this had happened. She hadn't planned on being emotionally attracted to this other man. As a matter of fact, she'd always prided herself on being a woman of strong conviction and had scoffed at the idea of ever being tempted to have an affair.
It starts off simple enough - his comment that you mull over one too many times, a conversation in which you find a surprising connection, a glance that lingers just a second too long, or one of a thousand other interactions that seem innocent yet aren't. These are the dangerous seeds that can easily sprout into an emotional affair.
Some think it is a safe way to enjoy the lure of being attracted to someone other than your spouse without crossing any lines. But God boldly and plainly says in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee from sexual immorality." God doesn't say walk away from sexual immorality. No, He says to flee as if your very life is at stake! The time to prevent an emotional affair is before it ever starts. For me to rest on my spiritual laurels and think that it could never happen to me, made me a prideful, open target for Satan.
Jesus warned his disciples in Matthew 26:41,"Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." The Life Application NIV Bible commentary says, "Jesus used Peter's drowsiness to warn him about the kinds of temptation he would soon face. The way to overcome temptation is to keep watch and pray. Watching means being aware of the possibilities of temptation, sensitive to the subtleties, spiritually equipped to fight it."
Watching: I now realize that I need to be aware that I am just as prone to this temptation as anyone. One of the best ways to be watchful is to be praying with and for my husband. We need to be open and honest about meeting each other's needs and investing wisely in our marriage. If we get into a rough place, we need to be willing to get help. I love the quote, "If you are busy rowing the boat, you won't have time to rock it." The more my husband and I are taking care of each other, the less attractive temptations will seem.
Sensitive to the Subtleties: I will have to be honest with myself that temptations do exist. When another man says or does something I wish my husband would say or do and doesn't, it can make me lessen my husband in my heart and build up this other man. This is a seed of poison. If watered and fed, this seed will sprout and spread and devastate. Seeds seem so small until you realize that within them they contain the potential to become huge. So, I will be steadfast to keep the fertile ground of my heart pure.
Spiritually Equipped: Philippians 4:8 reminds us, "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things" (NIV). I must park my mind with the truth and the truth is I am married to an amazing man . He is not perfect and sometimes our marriage can be hard, but I made a commitment to Him in a covenant before God and there are no Biblical reasons in our marriage why we should ever part. Therefore, I've made the decision not to part - in big ways or small.
My friend did the wisest but hardest thing she could have done in telling me about her emotional affair. Not only did it help her to see she needed to flee and have someone else hold her accountable, but it also made me aware and alert to the dangers lurking in any kind of unhealthy emotional connection with another man.
Philippians 4:8, "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." (NIV)
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